Twilight does not portray any obscene text or graphics. Rather, this special type of porn is in the form of emotional roller coasters, excessive romanticizing and the affection and interaction with perfect male characters. For example, Edward Cullen.. Therefore making us women, develop these subconscious expectations of our boyfriends, husbands, or even future spouses... Or if you can't find one, moulding or changing your partner into the perfect character you've been wanting for so long the path you'll take... Making us obsessed, trying to find that perfect man to fit in our so call fairytale life, failing to realize Mr. not so-Perfect but the one for you is actually nearby.. Though its obvious that, those type of men does not exist these days.. Or wait, never existed...
Anyway, 4 said that romance movie/books are porn for women and porn is porn for men... Both has the same concept... Romance is fantasy for women, just as much as porn is fantasy for men.. Here's one tiny itsy bitsy witsy of our conversation.
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But this doesn't imply we should all swear off romantic comedies and dramas or books (Though I'm obviously in love with it), but I do think that we should be aware of how they affect us... Life is not a movie, book nor it is based on fantasy... You don’t always meet your soul-mate dancing in the rain or one who saves you from werewolf or vampires.... So welcome back to the reality...
love ya,
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