Twilight is porn

Is Twilight really considered porn for women? What's porn? According to Wikipedia, Pornography or porn is a depiction of explicit sexual matter for purposes of sexual excitement.. Or we can just simply label it as chick porn... Why chick porn? It's like how women, view “regular porn, ” as unrealistic portrayals of a man’s idealistic view of a woman, it’s exactly the same. Chick Porn is a woman’s unrealistic view of an idealized man... Looking further into this, Twilight has capture the attention of female around the globe, consist mostly of teenagers and young adults.. Twilight is all about undying romance between Bella, a teenage girl and Edward, a century-old sparkling vampire who is obsessed with her.. His addiction to her is like a drug addict who discover a top brand heroin or some sort...

Twilight does not portray any obscene text or graphics. Rather, this special type of porn is in the form of emotional roller coasters, excessive romanticizing and the affection and interaction with perfect male characters. For example, Edward Cullen.. Therefore making us women, develop these subconscious expectations of our boyfriends, husbands, or even future spouses... Or if you can't find one, moulding or changing your partner into the perfect character you've been wanting for so long the path you'll take... Making us obsessed, trying to find that perfect man to fit in our so call fairytale life, failing to realize Mr. not so-Perfect but the one for you is actually nearby.. Though its obvious that, those type of men does not exist these days.. Or wait, never existed...


Anyway, 4 said that romance movie/books are porn for women and porn is porn for men... Both has the same concept... Romance is fantasy for women, just as much as porn is fantasy for men.. Here's one tiny itsy bitsy witsy of our conversation.

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But this doesn't imply we should all swear off romantic comedies and dramas or books (Though I'm obviously in love with it), but I do think that we should be aware of how they affect us... Life is not a movie, book nor it is based on fantasy... You don’t always meet your soul-mate dancing in the rain or one who saves you from werewolf or vampires.... So welcome back to the reality...

Anyway, with all that... Here's a fact... Jacob is hot and cute... He has a nice body especially everything below neck level... You had to agree to that.. *winks* .... Edward on the meantime isn't really THAT appealing to me... He's so damn fair, Tan is the new man... Go team Jacob!

So, what team are you in?

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My name is ................. Ah moi

My name is Ah moi.... Sushi ah moi... That's the new name given by Mr.Afi, my Pengajian Malaysia lecturer.... ok, the story was like this... I was late for class one day, so I sneaked into the lecture hall from the back door but lucky me everyone was early that day... "Oh, ah moi! you sudah datang...kenapa hari ini lewatnya?" Holding the sushi king plastic bag which contains golden balls, I turn around smile at him and sit down... "EI ei ei, pergi sushi king tak ajak...kenapa tak panggil mereka datang sini buat sushi?tak payah la susah susah pergi tesco..isk isk sushi ah moi ni...kenapa tak tapao green tea?" ALAMAK, so darn embarassed that time... The spotlight was on me, the whole class was looking at me and Mr.Afi was holding the MIC while talking to me... If i were a tortoise, I would definitely stick my head in... I swore not to be late ever again to his class...

So now, I'm known as sushi ah moi... ><




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I am who I am~~

P/S: I know the title don't relate... but nah, pls ignore...

Its raining meows and barks nowadays... cool and chilling is good, but the bad thing is you can only stay at home doing nothing other than sleeping, eating or onlining... Don't tell me you peeps study right?? Kamparians are well known for doing everything last minute... projects, assignment or studying for an upcoming exam... Not all though, but its the majority that counts...


Had Japanese food for lunch in Akamomiji last Saturday... Thanks daddy kesayanganku.... MMMmmm, the food was sumptuous, real nice compare to packet food in Kampar...DUH... No pictures because

A) I was too hungry
B) I was obsessed with the menu
C) Im obsessed with the food
D) Im obsessed with the waitresses
D) ERRM... I was dreaming??
E) Did I just repeated D twice???


Has been 2 long weeks since I came back to Ipoh, ah.. I miss home... Home is a stress free medium... Keeps you away from school stress, $ stress, B stress, C stress, or any stress you can name... A-Z no one cares...or whatever type of mumbo jumbo stress...name it, your choice... I realized my bed at home is wayyy better and comfier than the one in Kampar... Makes me sleep better and faster... Who say size doesn't matter?? Big beds makes me happy because I tend to roll around the bed when I sleep...aih, pig... and there's the air-con because Kampar's weather really makes you crazy, its hot and cold like Kate Perry's song... Mostly hot and warm minus the weather these days though... Hometown is better though, at least you can go back and get pampered from the family, hang out with M and my girls (i miss u guys), just chit-chat or yumcha...have wider varieties of food, mum's cooking... or even just go shopping ( The only "supermarket" Kampar have is Tesco..oh dear..)... If not, just laze at home and makan chips or watch dramas in Wah Lai Toi... =p


Durian season is here again... WOOPIE!!!
Durian is exceptionally yummy... Not only it makes your mulut berbau... it makes your fart smells... *fart fart* mmm.... you smell sooo durian'ish... HAHA, just joking...


Anyway, my right eye has been twitching since last Wednesday... twitching non-stop from morning to night... Even the pupu sessions also it'll twitch... Rosakkan mood only... Lady luck coming my way or just lack of sleep?? I'll rather stick to the first one...HAHA... What do you think??


LASTLY Happy Birthday Kawanku Muhammad Asyraf or solely known as ASH... dah besar, Jangan "rogol pokok" so much yea??
*NO PICTURES* (WEY! upload la ss pic you at facebook)

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Rest In Peace

IPOH: Two Tunku Abdul Rahman University (Utar) students were found drowned and one more still missing after they were swept away at the waterfalls at Batu Berangkai picnic area in Kampar about 5.30pm Sunday.

Perak Mentri Besar Datuk Dr Zambry Abdul Kadir said the body of James Khor Wan Kai, 20, from Penang was found by villagers at 9.40pm about 300 meters from where he was last seen.

At 11.20pm, Yew Shy Gin (female), 19, from Kedah, was found.

The missing student was earlier identified as Yew Ghim Chnieh, 20, from Penang by Datuk Dr Mah Hang Soon State Health, Local Government, Consumer, Environment, Transport and Non-Islamic Affairs Committee head.

Dr Mah said he had spoken to a fourth student who told him that the four had gone to the waterfalls at about 5pm. Two boys and the girl went into the water first.

The fourth student, a male, was about to enter the water when a strong gush of water tumbled him in. As he struggled to scramble out, he suffered cuts and bruises.

Fortunately, a Kampar resident rushed over, pulled him out and took him to the Kampar police station to lodge a report.

According to Dr Mah, the 22-year-old second year Accountancy student from Kuala Lumpur declined to be named and did not wish to speak to reporters.
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This article is from the Star Online.... It all happened at Batu Berangkai, Kampar... Alas, all hopes for the last survivor had failed for he had passed away...The latest news is that the body of Yew Ghim Chnieh was found... May your souls Rest In Peace... Its a waste for they were all so young... I'm actually sad and speechless now... Life is so short... I just saw James last friday... Its seriously a tragedy... haihs...


You can pay your tribute here.

You shall be remembered... We'll miss you...
Dear James Khor Wan Khai, my dear friend...
May your soul Rest In Peace...




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what does virgin mean?

so what are you gonna answer your child if they ask you this question.... now you know *winks*